As technology continues to reshape how families connect, virtual parenting time has become an increasingly relevant topic in Washington State family law. Often referred to as electronic visitation, this form of parenting time allows non-custodial parents to maintain meaningful contact with their children through video calls, messaging apps, and other digital platforms.

 

Under Washington law, the best interests of the child remain the cornerstone of any parenting plan. Courts may consider virtual parenting time as a supplement to in-person visits, especially when physical visitation is impractical due to distance, scheduling conflicts, or other barriers. This has become particularly valuable in cases where parents live in different cities or states, or when a child’s extracurricular activities limit availability for in-person time.

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urts have broad discretion when creating or modifying parenting plans. RCW 26.09—the section of Washington’s Revised Code dealing with parenting plans—allows for detailed visitation schedules, including provisions for electronic communication. While not yet standard in all plans, judges may order virtual parenting time if it supports the child’s emotional well-being and encourages a strong parent-child relationship.

For virtual parenting time to be effective in Washington, both parties should agree on guidelines—such as duration, frequency, and preferred platforms. Parents should also consider access to technology and ensure that virtual visits do not interfere with school, bedtime, or other routines.  Our experienced attorneys are familiar with a variety of situations and can give guidance and recommendations about best practices.

It’s important to note that virtual parenting time is not a substitute for physical visitation, unless ordered otherwise by the court. It is best viewed as a complement to help maintain consistency and connection, particularly in high-conflict or long-distance cases.

As remote communication becomes more normalized, Washington family courts are increasingly open to integrating technology into parenting plans. Parents who prioritize flexibility and cooperation can use virtual parenting time as a valuable tool to support their child’s sense of stability and connection—no matter the distance.